Authenticity Matters
It's Not Who You Are. It's What You've Had to Navigate.
Most therapists will affirm who you are. Fewer will actually talk about sex. And almost none will understand what it means to navigate the world as a gay or queer man right now.
How Gay Men Explore Their Sexual Role: Moving Beyond “Top vs Bottom”
From a clinical perspective, it’s more useful to understand sexual roles not as identities you must define early, but as experiences you come to understand through exploration. Sexuality is not just behavior—it’s tied to identity, emotion, and the meaning we make of our experiences.