Sex Therapy for Gay and Queer Men

AASECT-certified. Gay-owned practice. Stamford, CT and online.

Most therapists will affirm who you are. Fewer will actually talk about sex. I'm Matthew K. Phillips, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and gay man in Stamford, CT. I work with gay and queer men on the things that are hardest to say out loud. In person and online.

Who I Work With

  • Gay & Queer Men

    You don't have to explain yourself before the work begins. I work with gay and queer men on identity, shame, sexuality, and the particular terrain of building a life that actually fits.

  • Gay Male Couples

    Two men in a relationship face dynamics that most couples therapists don't fully understand. I work with gay and queer male couples on communication, sexual connection, relationship agreements, and everything in between..

  • Transgender People

    When you tell me who you are, I believe you and the work starts there. I work with transgender adolescents and adults, and with the parents and families who want to show up for them.

  • Men

    I work with men who don't identify as gay or queer on sexuality, relationships, masculinity, and the things that are hardest to talk about. You can put down your defenses with me.

Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy

Meet your therapist.

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Matthew K. Phillips, PhD, MEd, LCSW, CST

My Blog: “Authenticity Matters

Perspectives on My Work