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A monthly, therapist-facilitated book club for gay men who want deeper conversations—about sex, relationships, identity, and the stories that shape us.

This isn’t about rushing through chapters or having the “right” take. It&

I’ve been thinking a lot about how rarely gay men get to slow down and talk — not just about dating or sex, but about meaning, identity, and the stories that shape us.

This spring, I’m starting a small, facilitated book club for ga

Silence helped many gay men survive.
Not because something was wrong with us—but because being visible felt risky.

That silence made sense then.
But intimacy and emotional regulation require expression now.

Unlearning silence isn’t fail

🌈✨ Queer Joy, Queer Care—This Holiday Season ✨🌈

The holidays don’t look the same for everyone in our community.
Some are celebrating with family.
Some with chosen family.
Some are holding boundaries, grieving, or spending this season o

Our transgender siblings deserve our unwavering love and support, especially in the face of adversity from our current government. I’m deeply grateful for the transgender individuals who enrich my life, and I invite you to join me in celebratin

Let today be for furious grief. Let tomorrow be for action. Please take care of you. If we already have a relationship, please feel free to reach out to me. We are in this together.

🌿 Navigating Thoughts: You Are Not Alone 🌿
Hey everyone, just a gentle reminder that it's okay to feel overwhelmed by depressive and anxious thoughts sometimes. They can be persistent and challenging, but remember, they don't define who you are. 💭

Matthew K. Phillips, PhD, MEd, LCSW, CST
1867 Summer Street
Stamford, CT 06905
Telehealth in CT, NY, and FL
(203) 285-6460
matthew@matthewkphillips.com

Matthew K. Phillips, PhD, LCSW, MEd, CST
1867 Summer Street
Stamford, CT 06905
Telehealth in CT, NY and FL
(203) 285-6460
matthew@matthewkphillips.com

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